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10 May 2015

If Kids Fight Can You Stay Friends?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Managing Children's Behaviour | 2

You know the scene, when your kids are little: whenever you go round to your friend’s for a nice coffee and chat the kids fight, one gets hurt and it happens again and again. Gradually resentments build up on both … Read More

authority, bullying, challenging behaviour, feelings, needs
15 Jun 2014

How To Get Your Needs Met

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Parenting | 0

When my daughter was three, I said to her ‘The World Cup is starting next week, I’ll need to watch every match uninterrupted.’ This is a confessional blog post, by the way, I’ve always felt I can’t possibly tell people … Read More

communication, needs, teenagers, toddlers
get kids to help
22 Feb 2014

How Do We Get Kids To Help More?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Managing Children's Behaviour | 2

You know when you do that thing where you lie on the settee all day pretending to be ill? No? Only me then? I keep asking parents this question, and I have never met one who has tried this, or … Read More

needs, sons, toddlers
21 Jul 2013

The Summer Holiday You Want

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Parenting | 0

So what kind of summer holiday do you want? I always think it’s important to know, and to make sure your children know too. I used to say to my kids when they were small: ‘Shall we have one of … Read More

children, humour, needs
our own needs
14 Jun 2013

Looking After Our Own Needs

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Parenting | 0

Last week I took myself off for a wild and windy weekend’s camping. I’d reached the point where all those plates I was spinning in the air felt like they were about to come crashing down so I did what I … Read More

fathers, mothers, needs
odd child
24 Mar 2013

Do You Have An Odd Child?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Things We Worry About | 2

Do you have an odd child in your family? I’m only asking because I used to have one. He was an odd child right up to about the third year of secondary school and then he got a big circle … Read More

challenging behaviour, feelings, needs
3 Feb 2013

Screen Time: How Much Is OK?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Parenting | 4

There are lots of different screens, and when it comes to modern parenting they get lumped together as one thing: ‘screen time’ about which we have to have a ‘policy’. Different screens serve different functions though, so I thought I’d … Read More

children, communication, honesty, listening, needs, teenagers, trust
28 Sep 2012

Children’s Needs

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Things We Worry About | 0

In the olden days, children didn’t have emotional needs, they just had physical ones. They were fed, watered and sheltered, and that was generally thought to be enough. Job done! Apart from the basic physical needs, children’s needs were seen … Read More

children, needs
fun
1 Aug 2012

Are We Having Fun Yet?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Parenting | 0

We used to sit down as a family before any school holiday and all say what we wanted from it, so that we all knew. I would say things like ‘I need two days uninterrupted work, I want a day … Read More

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social connections
4 Jun 2012

Why We Need Social Connections

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 0

Welcome to everyone who has just subscribed to this blog!  Thanks to those who have Liked the Facebook page too.  In another week of isolation (looking after children in various stages of recovering from illness), it really hit me how important … Read More

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