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control
21 May 2017

Am I In Control?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Musings on stuff | 0

Control is a bit of a dirty word isn’t it? It’s had a bad press anyway, it has connotations. I have been told in the past “you’re too controlling” and found it impossible to defend myself against that accusation, it’s very … Read More

authority, children, respect
21 Feb 2016

Should a Parent Be a Friend?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Handy Guides and Lists | 0

Should a parent be a friend to their child? Well we all know the answer to this one don’t we; the answer is NO! Children need you to be a parent, not a friend. And I agree with that in … Read More

communication, respect
kids hitting their parents
13 Dec 2015

Kids Hitting Their Parents

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Managing Children's Behaviour | 1

Observing a child hitting or kicking a parent is one of those things that has always made me instinctively gasp inside, it’s a gut reaction which is a mixture of shock, shame and fear, and I think my feeling is … Read More

respect, teenagers
managing-disrespect
1 May 2015

Managing Disrespect

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Managing Children's Behaviour | 11

So our child is treating us with disrespect or contempt and we’re feeling really pissed off. How do we do ‘pissed off’ effectively? When managing disrespect from our child there are a few do’s and don’ts: Managing Disrespect Don’ts: Don’t … Read More

challenging behaviour, communication, respect, trust
10 Apr 2015

Obnoxious Behaviour

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Managing Children's Behaviour | 5

I’ve been hearing stories all week of obnoxious behaviour from children towards their mothers. I’ve heard stories about kids of all ages, boys and girls, from toddlers to teenagers, and it kicked off with a piece I read in the … Read More

challenging behaviour, good enough mothers, respect, teenage girls
7 Nov 2014

Ways We Treat Our Kids

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Handy Guides and Lists | 1

There are some ways we treat our kids which we wouldn’t like ourselves, I’ve done it, and for some reason I’ve imagined that even though it wouldn’t work for me, it should work for them. It never has. Here are … Read More

communication, honesty, respect, trust
support
4 May 2014

Do We Support Kids Too Much?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Parenting | 4

I saw the brilliant Tracey Thorn this week reading an extract from her autobiography, and she’d got to the bit where she was sixteen and had decided to ‘be in a band.’ She explained how brilliant punk was for its … Read More

children's autonomy, respect, teenage girls
13 Oct 2012

For Our Daughters

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 2

Thursday was International Girls Day and I couldn’t help but feel the irony of that this week, when the news about girls in this country has been so uniformly depressing. If it wasn’t Jimmy Savile, it was reports about the … Read More

daughters, respect, young women

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