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strategies-and-techniques
13 Feb 2015

Strategies And Techniques

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Managing Children's Behaviour | 0

I’m not a fan of strategies and techniques of behaviour-management and discipline, I never have been, partly because it all sounds too much like hard work to me and I’m basically lazy. I’m also uncomfortable with the words themselves, they … Read More

communication, role models, teenage boys, teenage girls, trust
body-confidence
5 Oct 2014

Body Confidence Issues

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Things We Worry About | 0

As I look at my daughter, just turned 15, I am so glad I’d become older and wiser before she arrived in the world. I am so glad I had reached the Fuck It stage of body confidence and that … Read More

mothers, role models, teenage girls
the-sun-in-newsagent
8 Jun 2014

How Do I Explain Page 3 to My Kids?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 4

Here’s a question I get asked a lot: ‘If my little girl/boy gets to see Page 3 in public how do I explain it to her/him?’ and my advice is the same as it would be for anything else that … Read More

honesty, role models
mothers are role models
16 Mar 2014

Mothers Are Role Models

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 0

When I just had my three sons, I saw myself as their blueprint of Woman and I wanted them to think that women are good, but when I had my daughter I learned pretty early on that ‘women are good’ was … Read More

good enough mothers, role models
8 Dec 2013

Celebrity Life Lessons

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 0

My daughter and I are nearing the end of our autumn reality t.v. fest during which we have gorged ourselves on X Factor and I’m a Celebrity Get Me Out of Here for the past few happy weeks. I love … Read More

gender stereotyping, role models, teenage girls
role model
6 Oct 2013

Being a Role Model

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 4

I found a great quote on Twitter this week, I don’t know who said it so I can’t credit it, but it just about sums up my philosophy so I’ll share it with you here: ‘I don’t know how to … Read More

children, mothers, role models, teenagers
25 Aug 2013

Taking Parental Responsibility

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 10

This week I travelled up to North Wales to see Grandma with  my 13-year-old daughter, the first time we have done this trip just the two of us.  At Oxford services (Westbound, M40) we went into W H Smith for … Read More

cultural conditioning, daughters, role models, teenage girls
cultural messages
26 May 2013

Harmful Cultural Messages

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 3

Welcome back everyone who had to make a bit of effort to resubscribe to this blog, and welcome new subscribers! Those who’ve been here for a while know that I write about my real life with my real children, with … Read More

children, cultural conditioning, gender stereotyping, role models, teenagers
feminism-and-values
17 Feb 2013

Feminism and Values

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 0

I am becoming a real feminist, I know this because my 16-yr-old son rolls his eyes and says ‘Honestly mum, you’re becoming a real feminist’ whenever I make a reasonable comment about wimmin’s issues. ‘Oh no’ I say ‘that must … Read More

cultural conditioning, role models, teenagers

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