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self-esteem

13 Jul 2014

What’s Wrong With Insecurities?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Things We Worry About | 2

My daughter and I, for lack of a World Cup game, found ourselves watching a tribute to football pundit extraordinaire Alan Hansen on telly the other night. Presented by Gary Lineker, it was one of the most moving stories of … Read More

self-esteem
swimming costume
1 Jun 2014

Shopping For a Swimming Costume

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 4

Summer half-term is like a seasonal consumer groundhog day for me. I inevitably find myself in one of those large cheap shopping emporiums like Matalan with my daughter and the reason we’re there is to buy a new swimming costume. … Read More

self-esteem, teenage girls
self-esteem
16 Feb 2014

Building Self-Esteem

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Parenting | 0

I’ve really had it with ‘building self-esteem’ in your child as a concept. Self-esteem is not a Lego set, we can’t follow a set of complicated instructions, get all the bricks of the right colours in the right places and … Read More

self-esteem, the brain, toddlers
22 Sep 2013

The Tyranny of Being Beautiful

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 2

‘Ooooh! You look GORGEOUS! Wow. That really suits you! You look really lovely in flowery stuff! So gorgeous!’ I said that to my 16-year-old son at the end of last term when he modelled his prom outfit for me – … Read More

communication, cultural conditioning, gender stereotyping, listening, self-esteem, teenage girls
teenage girls clothes advice
13 Jan 2013

Teenage Girls Clothes Advice

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 10

I was directed to an article in the Daily Mail this week, reporting a mother’s concern about what her teenage daughter chose to wear to her 14th birthday party and luckily, as I have no imagination, the Mail helpfully published … Read More

cultural conditioning, daughters, self-esteem, teenage girls
introvert child
9 Jun 2012

Do You Have An Introvert Child?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Things We Worry About | 3

This week I’ve been reading a book which explores the characteristics of introverts versus extroverts. I know which I am (only an introvert would buy a book with a title like ‘Quiet’). I remember at infant school once, when the … Read More

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