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    • Communication and Peer Mediation
    • Transgender Training

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the best thing we can do for our daughters
28 Feb 2016

The Best Thing We Can Do For Our Daughters

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 0

I was once, at the school where I worked, in a meeting with a mother whose daughter was causing upset amongst the girls’ group as well as being disruptive in class. It was typical Year 6 behaviour in a way, … Read More

communication, socialisation, teenage girls
real-life-twins
16 Jul 2015

Real Life Twins

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 2

I am an identical twin so I sat down to watch ‘Secret Life of Twins’ on ITV yesterday hoping that it would do something I’ve never seen before on t.v. by portraying real life twins, rather than the freak show … Read More

cultural conditioning, socialisation
22 May 2015

Transgender – A Parents’ Guide pt II

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 2

It’s hard to write about transgender issues as a parenting blogger because in questioning the prevailing trans ideology I know I will be dismissed as transphobic by many, so it’s a risk. If it was hard for me to write … Read More

cultural conditioning, gender stereotyping, socialisation, transgender
15 May 2015

Transgender – A Parents’ Guide

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 2

My eighteen year old son tells me that at his college, everyone’s talking about gender and in particular whether they might be transgender, gender-queer, gender-fluid and a host of other things which he couldn’t remember. The teen/young adult years are … Read More

cultural conditioning, gender stereotyping, socialisation, transgender
24 Apr 2015

Socialising Girls Into Motherhood

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 4

Writing my last post about kids treating their mothers with contempt got me thinking about the role of cultural socialisation on how we are as mothers. There’s a lot of discussion these days on the subject of socialising girls. We … Read More

authority, cultural conditioning, gender stereotyping, mothers, socialisation
is-my-child-transgender
6 Mar 2015

Is My Child Transgender?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 23

I have been debating for a while about writing a blog about transgender issues for parents. This article, Parenting a Transgender Child, which recently appeared in the Huffington Post, has pushed me into action. It’s about an eight-year-old boy who … Read More

cultural conditioning, gender stereotyping, socialisation, transgender

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