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just want my child to be happy
26 Nov 2016

Do I Just Want My Child To Be Happy?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Musings on stuff | 5

I have heard this statement a lot recently in media articles about parents, usually in reference to something a parent feels they have to allow their child to do, or offered as an explanation of their solution to a problem: … Read More

children, feelings, learning, transgender
children and gender
28 Jul 2016

Children and Gender

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 6

What could possibly make a parent believe that their girl is actually, in reality, a boy? Taking part in the pre-recorded debate for Bringing Up Britain on Radio 4 last week, on the subject of children and gender, it hit home to … Read More

cultural conditioning, gender stereotyping, transgender
gender labels
7 Feb 2016

Teenage Girls Don’t Need Gender Labels

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 2

We need to be careful in our use of labels, kids are fragile in their susceptibility to believing adults’ judgments so the labels or diagnoses we slap on a child can easily become internalised as part of their own self-image … Read More

teenage girls, transgender
transgender experiment
15 Nov 2015

The Transgender Experiment on Kids

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 3

Channel 4’s ‘Born in the Wrong Body’ recent season of programming began with the episode ‘My Transgender Kid’, doing its bit to reinforce uncritical mass acceptance of the idea that children have an innate ‘gender identity’ which overrides their biological … Read More

transgender
22 May 2015

Transgender – A Parents’ Guide pt II

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 2

It’s hard to write about transgender issues as a parenting blogger because in questioning the prevailing trans ideology I know I will be dismissed as transphobic by many, so it’s a risk. If it was hard for me to write … Read More

cultural conditioning, gender stereotyping, socialisation, transgender
15 May 2015

Transgender – A Parents’ Guide

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 2

My eighteen year old son tells me that at his college, everyone’s talking about gender and in particular whether they might be transgender, gender-queer, gender-fluid and a host of other things which he couldn’t remember. The teen/young adult years are … Read More

cultural conditioning, gender stereotyping, socialisation, transgender
is-my-child-transgender
6 Mar 2015

Is My Child Transgender?

by Stephanie Davies-Arai | posted in: Social and Cultural Influences | 23

I have been debating for a while about writing a blog about transgender issues for parents. This article, Parenting a Transgender Child, which recently appeared in the Huffington Post, has pushed me into action. It’s about an eight-year-old boy who … Read More

cultural conditioning, gender stereotyping, socialisation, transgender

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